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There are moments in life when we are faced with decisions we don’t want to make. Moments when we feel stuck between two or more competing priorities. When every option seems to cost us something. When choosing one path feels like betraying another. Whether we are leading at home, at work or in community, these moments are inevitable. And in those moments, our values matter more than our comfort. I live through this tension often. I’ve lived it in seasons where my time was so

Let’s begin with a familiar story. Imagine a young woman,  she was good at her job—competent, dependable, and trusted—yet the same pattern kept repeating. In meetings, she gets offended when questioned, heard criticism where none was intended, and later replayed every interaction with quiet frustration.  She wasn’t reacting to the moment as much as to an old, unexamined story about having to prove her worth. Without realizing it, her emotions were making decisions before her